How To Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating?

Everyone who has any kind of relations knows how painful it is to be betrayed. Everything seems to be alright with your partner, but suddenly you start noticing some signs, that there is a third secret person, who is present in your relations. And here you feel the presence of someone in your partner’s thoughts, dreams, and plans, but it is not vivid, and you can not say for sure that it is true.

It doesn’t really matter, if you live for a couple of days or for ages with your behalf, cheating partner is a reality, which takes place in lives of many individuals.

In our article, our team is aimed to cover possible signs of cheating, reasons, why it is wrong as well problems which betrayed person, may face and of course, some cool apps to catch a cheater along with finding the truth in a cheap, reliable and fast way.

Signs of a cheating partner

If you think that your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend cheats, make sure to become more attentive to signs. According to the post on, even the breathing of a cheating partner might be changed. We have listed some of the most common signs that may indicate that your beloved person is unfair to you. 

  1. You started receiving less attention from your mate.

    If you have a cheating partner, then this person is no longer interested in spending much time with you. As a result, your cheating spouse spends more time at work, with friends, at meetings, or in the gym. He or she is busy and always can’t afford a minute to receive your call or chat.

  2. A cheating person pays more attention to appearance.

    If your partner cheats, he or she tries their best to look better and more attractive. Now, this person spends more time in the bathroom, buys new clothes, or keeps a diet to look nicer.

  3. You quarrel a lot.

    If you are criticized more than ever before or your partner tries to make you feel guilty, think over that you have possibly a cheating person nearby.

  4. You become physically far from each other.

    A cheating boyfriend or girlfriend needs less of your physical presence. He or she may refuse to hug, kiss, or have intimate relations with you. And the last but not the least is the behavior with the gadgets like phones or PC.

  5. Cheating partner has secretes on a cell phone, PC.

    In the modern world, it is really easy to see changes in the behavior of your partner, while he/she uses the phone or PC. For instance, the device can be locked, so you can’t access it. Every time you enter the room, a cheating spouse can close the laptop or quickly end the call. Moreover, your sweetheart can delete messages as well as calls history, Facebook or WhatsApp chats, etc.

    If this person is clever enough, certain numbers can be renamed or incognito mode can be used to visit some pages. This is the shortlist of those signs, which you can easily notice in your partner’s behavior. However, you may say that these signs could be of different nature, and of course, you may be right. In any case, we recommend you find out the truth, because there are dozens of things that can go wrong if you have a cheating partner.

What problems you may face while living with cheaters?

living with cheater

Your personal psychological state

Every time you catch yourself on a thought that your beloved person can spend time with someone else or that you can soon expect the ending of your relations – it becomes really hard to keep your emotions under control! You become really nervous and can’t concentrate on your work or other important things. Here are the 8 tips from the article on how to cope when your partner is unfaithful.

You must definitely stop that and check for sure if your suspicions are real.

A possible disease which you can get from the cheating partner

Catching a cheating partner can save you from getting into serious troubles with your health. You can’t be sure that your spouse spends time with the right people (we hope you know what we mean). Thus, such relations don’t guarantee that you are 100% safe from catching serious diseases.

It is better for you to know the truth, even if it is too painful.

Financial issues

Well, if your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend has somebody except you, it means that your beloved one is going to spend money on someone else. If you have a family, you are going to face even more financial troubles. Be ready, that your common budget will be spent on different presents, restaurants, etc., instead of gathering money for your kids’ college.

In order to avoid such situation, you should definitely catch a cheating partner.

Top ways to catch your partner cheating

Here we are going to open your secret ways to catch a cheater. And we hope that you will choose the most suitable option for you to find out the truth.

1) Change your plans unexpectedly.

This is probably the easiest way to catch a cheating partner! You can say that you are going to the gym or to meet with your friends, but later on, you return quicker than expected. You can also go on a business trip but come back earlier than you planned.

2) Visit those places, which your partner doesn’t expect you to.

One more way to catch a cheater is to visit those places, which your partner doesn’t expect you to. For instance, you can go to the gym, where your boyfriend/girlfriend has the training, or suddenly visit him/ her at work or in the café, where they normally have lunch. In any case, it should be a pleasant surprise! You should also always have an idea in your head to explain, why you came without any notification.

3) Follow your partner.

It is always a good idea to follow your partner on his/her way to work for example. Thus, you can see with whom your cheating spouse meets, where he/she stops, etc. You should be ready, that you won’t find out the truth on the same day, but it could take you a week to get the necessary information.

4) Hire a private detective.

Another cool option is to hire a private detective, who will provide you with all the information. However, you should be ready that it would cost you a fortune. In any case, if you can spend some money on that, you would definitely get all the proof you need.

5) Have a snoop.

The easiest, cheapest and fastest way is to snoop!

Modern cell phones and other gadgets have a lot of information on their owners: call logs, messages, browser history, etc. You should check your cheating partner’s phone or computer for possible secret messages or unknown numbers.

However, it might be rather difficult to do: the phone could be locked, your partner may use incognito mode while visiting certain pages, or he/she may simply delete everything. In this case, it is hardly possible to find anything relating to betrayal. What is more, accessing the gadget once is not enough to find out the truth. Thus, we recommend you to read about the best cell phone tricks (they can be used for PCs as well) to catch your cheating partner.

Best cell phone tricks to catch a cheating partner

cell phone tricks to catch a cheating partner

As it was mentioned before, spying on your partner’s gadget is probably the easiest and the most effective way to find if he/she really cheats. So, we are going to open you the best phone tricks to catch a cheating spouse.

1. Install a cell phone spy.

This is the #1 method on our list because it is fast and effective. Cell phone tracking software allows you to track your partner’s call logs, listen to conversations, read all possible text messages as well as WhatsApp and Facebook, monitor the GPS locations of your partner, and many other cool possibilities.

The only thing, which is required – you must install a cell phone tracker to the target device, you would like to monitor. For Android phones, we recommend Hoverwatch spyware (you can use it for free), for iPhone – mSpy is the best option (it works for Android as well). What is more, you must install a phone tracker on the target device ONLY. As soon as the spyware is active, you can log in to your monitoring account online and see there all the activities on the cheating partner’s phone/ PC.

Cool, don’t you think so?! If you don’t have the possibility to install spyware on the target phone, there is a chance to activate the tracker without having access to the mobile device.

2. Check the social activities of your partner.

Modern social networks contain a lot of information, which can be really helpful to catch a cheater. It is really easy for you to become more attentive to the posts of your partner. You can see all the check-ins like restaurants or hotels, which your partner has visited, and you are absolutely not aware of those places. Moreover, you can see who put likes to your partner’s photos, posts, etc. Just be more curious!

3. Bank account can help you find out the truth.

If your spouse and you have a joint bank account – it is a perfect way for you to track all things which were bought without your agreement. It is likely, that you can learn about a piece of jewelry or some other expensive things, which you haven’t got, but your partner spent money on them.

4. A secret camera.

If there is a computer with a camera in your room, you can easily activate any sort of monitoring program, which will act as a secret webcam. With its help, it would be possible to take photos and videos of your room. So, if your partner is not alone, you will be the first to know that.

5. Cloud data will help you.

Cloud storage is the perfect way for you to reveal your cheating partner’s secrets. Even if some information or files are deleted from the target phone or computer, there are many services (Dropbox or Google Drive) that can be synchronized with the mobile device and thus store deleted files.

As you can see there are so many cool ways to catch a cheater and you can find even more, but we recommend you to use the most reliable methods to get the truth within the shortest time.

Please mind, that the usage of certain tracking apps can be forbidden in your country, make sure to read the law before installing any apps to the devices, which do not belong to you.

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Comments (15):
    1. Hello Richy,

      You can track your grilfriend with cell phone spying app. You will see with whom she is chatting and what she is doing and you can follow her GPS location during the day. Find the best tracker for you on our website. We recommend you to use mSpy app.


  1. Hello Angel,
    Any cell phone spyware allows you to spy on the target device from your tracking online account. With a moritoring app you can see all the activities, read all the messages and track login details of the monitored device. You can do that for free, because some softwares have free test versions. However they are limited by the time and tracking functions. The list of such apps you can find in the section Top Spy Apps. You can dowmload the free version and see later on if you need further subscription. Let me know if you still have questions, we can also give you the bonus for a desired app.

  2. I tried Spyware but when he gets his phone back he sees I tried to install shows facebook in his history when he claims not to have it.

    1. Hello Jennifer,

      Thanks for your comment. Could you please tell us what spyware have you used? Leave your review about it on our website.


  3. Please can u help me find out if my girlfriend is cheatting on me,she is strange and doesnt talk to me she is always on her fone.

    1. Hello Ricardo,

      It is really simple with cell phone spy. However you should understand that it is not legal, that is why it is highly recommended to inform the monitored person. The best spywares to catch a cheater are mSpy (however they have very strickt policy regarding spying on partners. Thus they may tell you that it is illegal). You should also know that may be you will need a jailbreak or rooting on the target device. But support team will assist you with that.
      Let us know if you still need help.

  4. physically getting other’s mobile phone alone is sooo difficult & now the screen unlock using finger print.

    Do u have any remote installation without physically access the mobile phone?

    1. Hello bn,

      You are absolutely right saying that it is difficult to install a cell phone spy if you need to have a physicall access to the target device. Right now only mSpy for iPhone allows you to install a monitoring software without accessing the target iPhone.
      Another option for you can be installation using your personal SIM card and later you can change it back to person’s card. Moreover, if you share the same PC with your partner a computer spyware can be the way out.


  5. Hello! I feel my partner is lying & cheating how do I spy on her phones activities without touching it & not knowing her icloud id.

    1. Tom Richardson

      Hello Neil,

      If you partner uses Android phone, you will need physical access to it to install a spyware. If your parter uses iPhone, there are many apps, which allow you to access the target device without touching it, but you will need iCloud credentials. Another option for you can be a PC spy app. Please let mw know if you have other questions.

  6. I’m probably not the only who’ll love to keep a tab on my loved ones; knowing what he does on his phone and PC as well as his social media activities.

  7. You know that he is cheating still you want more proof ?
    Here are some tips :
    The easiest is to see his phone ( the call list, messages, Facebook, Twitter,Whatssap, Snapchat messages) wherever a person can have private messages needs to be checked.
    But if his phone is password protected and you cannot access it you have to hire a hacker because that is what I did and I got everything diverted from his cellphone directly to mine without touching it.
    I noticed how much secrecy he maintained with his phone so I decided that the photo gallery and emails and virtually everything needed to be checked.

  8. I want to recommend you to use spytomobile service if you need to get data from a phone. This app shows location, text messages, call history, WhatsApp and Viber data.

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